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G-Spot vs. Clitoris Orgasms: AKA the G Spot is a Myth Best Toys for G-spot Stimulation |
Introduction
The G-spot is an area located inside the vagina that is highly sensitive and capable of producing intense sexual pleasure when stimulated. This area is typically located on the anterior (front) wall of the vagina, about 2-3 inches inside the opening. While not all vagina owners find G-spot stimulation pleasurable or necessary for orgasm, it is a topic of much curiosity and interest in the field of sexuality.
G-Spot vs. Clitoris Orgasms: AKA the G-Spot is a Myth
G-spot or clitoris orgasms–which are better? What if we told you they’re actually the same? The evolved discovery is that the G-spot is a part of the larger clitoral network (formally the clitorurethrovaginal complex). The clitoris is both external and internal, splitting into two "legs", or "crura," which continue up and around the vaginal opening. The more accurate differentiation between orgasms is internal vs. external. These do feel different (though they can happen simultaneously), and orgasms from G-spot stimulation are often described as deeper, more intense, full-body orgasms.How to Find the G-spot
Because the G-spot can vary in depth (the average is ⅓ of the way up the front vaginal wall) finding your G-spot can take some experimentation. Here are some general tips for finding the G-spot and stimulating it:
- Start by making sure that you're fully aroused and comfortable. Whatever turns you on–do that. External clitoral stimulation and stimulating other erogenous zones you feel comfortable with (i.e., nipple stimulation, anal stimulation, etc.) is a great start to ease into it.
- Insert one or two lubricated fingers into the vagina, with your palm facing up. The G-spot is located on the anterior (front) vaginal wall, about 1-2 inches in. You may feel a slightly rough, ridged, or bumpy area that is texturally different from the surrounding tissue.
- Experiment with various types of touch and pressure to find what feels good. Try using a "come hither" motion with your fingers, gently massaging the G-spot, or experimenting with tapping or pulsing. If you have a hard time stimulating it, try pressing your other hand on your lower abdomen. This is also the best way to achieve a squirting orgasm (more on that later).
Best Toys for G-spot Stimulation
The best sex toys for G-spot stimulation are those that are designed specifically to target the front wall of the vagina. You will want something with a nice curve and enough firmness to apply pressure to the area. Finding the perfect toy will take some experimenting first with how much/how intense stimulation you personally prefer.
Here are a few of the most common types of toys that can be used to stimulate the G-spot:
Dildos
Dildos are the ultimate G-spot toy, and come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials. Look for dildos with a curve or angle to help you better reach the G-spot.G-spot Vibrators
These vibrators are specifically designed with a curved or angled tip to allow for precise G-spot stimulation. Many also feature a variety of vibration modes and intensities, so you can experiment with different sensations.
Butt plugs and Anal Stimulation
Would you be surprised if we told you that if you’ve had trouble with G-spot stim, you may want to go in through the back door? Your anal and vaginal walls are so close, you can stimulate a deep set G-spot with a firm butt plug.
Of course, not all toys work the same way for everyone, so the best toy for G-spot stimulation will depend on your individual anatomy and preferences. Experiment and explore with different shapes and sizes, and don't be afraid to try new things to find what works best for you!
G-Spot Stimulation and Squirting
One really cool thing about the G-spot is how much it can do, like ejaculating two different ways! The AMAB version of this is prostate milking. In fact, the Skene’s gland (where ejaculate comes from) has been referred to as the female prostate. G-spot stimulation can produce both squirt and “female” ejaculate.
Squirting is a release of built up clear liquid from the bladder. It’s watery, can release in small to large volumes, and is forever a hot topic regarding the whole ‘is it pee’ thing. Female ejaculate is thick and milky (more cummy, basically), releases in a relatively small amount, and comes from the paraurethral gland. It is made up of most of the same elements as seminal fluid. Where female ejaculate is something that releases upon orgasm, interestingly, squirt does not necessarily coincide with G-spot orgasm as it does G-spot stimulation. So why do it?
Besides being a fun party trick, some vulva owners can experience built up pressure from vaginal stimulation to the point of just feeling uncomfortable. If you’ve ever had sex for a while and felt a weird “have to pee” sensation, then congratulations my friend! You’re one of the people who experiences squirt buildup. Squirting can feel like a huge relief (and release) of internal pressure. It can also clear the urethra and has been hypothesized it may contain antimicrobial elements–both of which help you avoid UTIs.
Interested in trying it yourself? Here are some tips.
How to Squirt
- Prep ahead of time with a towel or, better yet, an incontinence pad
- Push down on your lower abdomen, just above your mons pubis
- Use a rumbly vibrator to ensure the vibrations go all the way through your entire clitoral complex
- When you feel real juicy and have massaged your G-spot enough to feel the built up pressure, release and push a little with your kegels (like you do when you pee)
Remember squirting isn’t everything. Not everyone can do it, and that’s really fine. In the same vein, G-spot stimulation isn’t everyone’s thing, and that’s fine too. The whole point of sexual exploration is learning what you enjoy, so you can have the best sexual experiences possible!